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Finding Happiness (Part 7)
Matthew 5:9
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“Blessed are the peacemakers, For they shall be called sons of God.”
(NKJV)
This Beatitude does not say, blessed are the peace lovers; it
says, blessed are the peacemakers. There is a difference. Most
people want to live in peace; few are willing to fight to establish it.
On a geo-political level, some take up arms to make peace, others use nonviolent
resistance methods. The Jewish historian Josephus
records that The Jews demonstrated in Caesarea because Pilate introduced
Caesar’s effigies into Jerusalem. The Jews were outraged because
the graven images were against their law. They interceded with Pilate,
but to no avail. On the 6th day, he ordered his army to prepare for
battle. The Jews returned to protest. Pilate gave the signal
and the soldiers surrounded them. Instead of dispersing, the Jews
lay on the ground, exposing their necks. Josephus wrote that they
would “rather take their deaths very willingly, rather than the wisdom
of their laws should be transgressed.” Their resolve touched Pilate
and he ordered his soldiers to stand down and his workers to remove the
graven images. (The Wars of the Jews and Antiquities of the Jews, book
18, chapter 3, p. 379)
Most of us would agree that the use of force is reserved for when
diplomatic and other nonviolent method are ineffective, but we also know
that there are times when force is necessary. When the Enabling Act gave
Hitler’s regime the dictatorial powers they wanted, Dietrich Bonhoeffer
encouraged the church to take a neutral position, but later spoke out against
the regime because Hitler’s views on race. Bonhoeffer was conflicted
because, like many liberals of his day, he was a pacifist. Yet in
April of 1934, he joined in with a group of pastors who opposed Hitler
to form the “Confessing Church.” At Bonhoeffer’s request, Reinhold
Niebuhr found him a teaching position at Union in 1939 so he could avoid
conscription into the military, but Bonhoeffer renounced the job a month
later to return to Germany. Upon his return, he helped to organize
a plot against Hitler’s life. Just before the end of the war, the
Nazis hanged Bonhoeffer at Flossenburg on April 9, 1945 for his opposition
to the regime. Evil can become so bad, that even a pacifist like
Bonhoeffer turns to violence.
I think it is helpful to think about being peacemakers on the
global scene before discussing peacemaking a personal level, which is the
focus of this message. If we are to be peacemakers, we must:
MAKE LIVING AT PEACE WITH ONE ANOTHER A PRIORITY. Matthew
5:23-24 says, "If therefore you are presenting your offering at the
altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you,
[24] leave your offering there before the altar, and go your way; first
be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering.”
(NASB) When we read this reference to “your offering” we automatically
think about the donation we made to the church this morning. But
in this cultural context, I don’t think Jesus was referring to charitable
contributions. If you are familiar with the Old Testament sacrificial
system, you know that people gave sacrifices for the forgiveness of their
sins. These people weren’t giving their offerings; they were presenting
their offerings—a direct reference to the sacrificial system. Leviticus
3 and Malachi 1:8 speak of presenting sacrifices.
There is a tremendous significance here. Instead of saying,
before you give your tithe to the church, get your heart right with your
fellowman, Jesus is saying, making things right with your fellowman takes
priority over presenting a sacrifice to God to get your relationship right
with Him. In essence, Jesus is saying, I’ll wait; get it right with
your enemy first. Another way to put it is that reconciliation with one
another is a higher priority than worship. But the scripture doesn’t
stop there. It is also a higher priority than sleep. Ephesians 4:26
says, "’Be angry, and do not sin’: do not let the sun go down on your wrath,”
(NKJV) And the Bible is clear, that in the marriage relationship, peace
in the home is necessary for a healthy prayer life. 1 Peter 3:7 says,
“Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to
the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace
of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.” (NKJV)
GIVE OTHERS THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT.
John Gottman, of the University of Washington, is a world renowned
Psychologist who can predict whether a marriage will last, or whether it
will end in divorce based on whether the couple engages in positive sentiment
override, or negative sentiment override. He defines positive sentiment
override as “where positive emotion overrides irritability.” If a
husband snaps at the wife after a long day, in positive sentiment override,
she overlooks the irritability. Her overall positive feelings about
him override the isolated negative action.
Negative sentiment override does the opposite. The negative
emotion overrides positive overtures. Gottman explains, “In the negative
sentiment override state, people draw lasting conclusions about each other.
If their spouse does something positive, it's a selfish person doing a
positive thing. It's really hard to change those states, and those states
determine whether when one party tries to repair things, the other party
sees that as repair or hostile manipulation.” (Blink:
The Power of Thinking Without Thinking by Malcolm Gladwell p. 29-30)
Have you ever been in a relationship where you’ve thought “I can’t
do anything right in their eyes?” That is a relationship in negative
sentiment override. Do you also have relationships with people that
tend to overlook your faults and love you for who you are? That’s
a relationship in positive sentiment override. Thank
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