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Chapter 5 Lay Minister's
Role
Mary Lou was polite and gracious when I visited her in the hospital.
Really, nothing noteworthy took place; we exchanged greetings, I expressed
concern and we prayed together. But something special happened when Frances
ministered to her the next day. After a brief visit, Mary Lou asked, "Would
you like to see my scar?" "Sure," replied Frances. Mary Lou untied her
gown and showed Frances the results of her radical mastectomy. Perhaps
it was a way of coping with the disfiguring surgery; certainly, it was
her way of receiving love and acceptance from her friend.
Frances wasn't helping the minister; she was the minister. She did what
I couldn't do. She rubbed souls with her hurting friend. The gender issue
wasn't what enabled her ministry to be effective, though it was a contributing
factor. It was the close, informal relationship they shared.
God intended Christians to be ministers. Paul wrote: "For by grace are
ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
[9] Not of works, lest any man should boast. [10] For we are his workmanship,
created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained
that we should walk in them." (Ephesians 2:8-10 KJV)
Ministers serve according to their gifts
Ephesians 2:8-9 teaches that God saves people on purpose. No
person accidently stumbles across God, rather, God pursues the lost to
redeem them unto himself (Luke 19:10). There is no room for people to boast
in their salvation; God initiated it and God sustains it.
Paul's instruction doesn't end with verse nine. Ephesians 2:10 teaches
that He saves people for a purpose. God creates believers for a
specific purpose and requires that they walk in the good works He prepares
for them.
God's plan is not for a believer to watch the minister or help
the minister; God's plan is for every believer to be a minister.
To that end, He gives them leaders (Ephesians 4:11) who will equip them
(Ephesians 4:12-13) and spiritual gifts (Ephesians 4:7) for them to use
in the ministry He plans for them.
Ministers Represent Their Church and the Pastor
In the late 1980s, the church I was serving, the First Baptist Church
of Palm Desert, California, voted to begin a mission church four miles
from our church building. The plan was to employ a pastor to do the music
and visitation and for me to do the preaching for two years. I preached
at the mission church during the Sunday School hour, then drove to the
home church for services. The arrangement freed the mission pastor to do
more face-to-face ministry and help the church grow.
The opening day we began with forty people and had a profession of faith
the first week. We were excited. The mission pastor stayed busy visiting
the people, but they kept asking him, "When is Pastor Jim going to stop
by?" Instead of calling the mission pastor for their counseling needs,
they asked to speak to me when the receptionist answered the phone. At
the end of the two years, most of them began attending the home church,
and we voted to close the mission.
As I look back on the church start, I see that it was doomed to fail
from the beginning. The people wanted more than a sermon from the pastor;
they wanted his attention.
Is there a way to give the people the pastor's attention and still allow
the members to minister? Yes, if the ministers will see themselves as representatives
of their church and their pastor.
Usually, ministers would say something like this when they call to schedule
a visit, "This is Bruce, from the church, is it all right if I stop by
to see you today?" Wouldn't it be just as natural to ask, "This is Bruce,
from the church; Pastor Jim asked me to give you a call; is it OK for me
to stop by today?"
At the end of the visit, the minister would say, "Thanks for letting
me come by. I'll be sure to relay your prayer requests on to the pastor
so he can pray for you too." Or, "The pastor will be glad to hear of your
progress."
While on the visit, the person may express a desire to see the pastor.
If this happens, why not assist them in making the appointment right on
the spot. "I'm sure Pastor Jim would love to see you, let's call him and
make an appointment right now." In the Be Church, the pastor doesn't
involve others in ministry to get out of work, he involves them so members
can grow in Christ. Most pastors of Be Churches are happy to minister
themselves when the situation demands their personal attention.
Ministers Communicate, Communicate, Communicate
The biggest downfall in a decentralized ministry plan is the tendency
of ministers not to communicate as effectively as they should. It is the
role of the minister to make sure the church office and the pastor are
aware of their ministry activities. During the Christmas season, our office
received several phone calls from people wanting Christmas baskets for
their family. The staff hadn't initiated the ministry and hadn't heard
of anyone else in the church that was planning to do it, so we told the
people we couldn't help them. One of the Sunday School classes heard about
the need and decided to prepare Christmas baskets as a mission project.
Luckily, we could call the people back and arrange to deliver the Christmas
baskets to them, but there was much confusion that better communication
could have solved.
There can never be enough communication. I'd rather hear from twenty
people that someone is in the hospital, than for no one to tell me. Ministers
are responsible for communicating their plans, their needs and the results
of their ministry.
Ministers Love.
One requirement for a class I teach at Trinity Southwest, How to
Develop a Philosophy of Ministry, is for students to give an oral presentation
of their philosophy of ministry. Recently, during his presentation, one
student commented that he wanted to help his congregation integrate the
Bible into their daily life--a worthy goal.
He said, "I don't remember anything my Sunday School teachers taught
me when I was a youth, and I want to do a better job teaching than my teachers
did." At first, his comment made me a bit defensive, but then I started
thinking about it and decided he was right. I don't specifically remember
anything my teachers taught me either.
About the time I was ready to agree fully, one of his classmates spoke
up. "I agree with you," he said. "I can't remember any specific thing my
teachers taught me either, but I do remember how much they cared for me.
That's made a difference in my life."
As a volunteer minister, you will never get a pay check, and few people
will thank you for your efforts. Your only reward on earth is the love
God gives you to express to others. The student taught the professor that
day. Not only is love required to do our work, it is our reward (Philip.
4:1).
It is important that you minister according to your gifts, represent
your church and the pastor and communicate with the church office, but
these efforts are worthless if you do not love. "And now abideth faith,
hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love." (1 Cor. 13:13
Author's translation)
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