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All of the active members
of Timothy Urbany's Sunday School Class at Eastborough Church in Colorado
Springs, Colorado, were white, middle class, and married with children.
They were "birds of a feather that flocked together." Urbany longed for
his class to be more diverse, more accepting of others, so he invited a
Christian friend from work to attend his class to help him evaluate their
potential for growth. She was a single, young black woman.
She arrived early, helped
herself to a donut and some coffee. She participated in the discussion
and did her best to make herself at home.
No one spoke to her.
The next week, Urbany explained
to the class who the young lady was and reported to his class, her impressions
of the class. They were stunned that none of the members of their loving
class reached out to her to make her feel welcome and wanted. It was almost
as if they didn't even notice her.
Really, the class's reaction
was predictable. Most people naturally tend to gravitate toward people
they have something in common with. In many ways, the church isn't much
different than lunch time at any middle school. The "pocket protector"
kids sit at one table, the jocks at another, and the princesses at another.
We tend to cluster with people like us.
And in many ways its OK,
but where it isn't OK is if someone doesn't feel valued or welcome because
they don't fit our mold and if we don't try to make a connection.
Urbany's class is still fairly
homogeneous, but later, they did assimilate a person into their fellowship
who closely resembled the lady who previously visited them. They are learning
to minister to whomever the Lord gives them, not just people like them.
They are learning to show preference to everyone.
Read the sermon
that corresponds to this devotional.